When I was
an elementary school student, my best friend was a member of a religious group
which tried hard to persuade members of the public to join. My friend invited me round to his house to
play football and to talk about religion.
After a few
months of playing football and then listening to him talking about his
religion, he asked me a question.
“Please
tell me the truth. Do you come here to
learn about God, or just to play football?”
“Ummm… I
really just come to enjoy football,” I said.
From that
day, he stopped inviting me to his house, and stopped talking to me at school
too. I still saw his mother on occasion,
when she came round to our house to talk about God. I always tried to be nice, and listen to her
for a few minutes and take whatever leaflet or magazine she offered.
I still try
to do the same thing in Japan when religious groups come to my front door and
try to talk to me about their religion.
I let them talk for a few minutes, collect whatever pamphlet they are
handing out, politely decline any invitations they make, and then say goodbye.
Unfortunately,
I made a mistake when such a person came to my door yesterday.
It was about
seven minutes before I was due to teach a lesson to a female student when the
doorbell rang. I opened the door and
heard a female voice saying, “Konnichi ha!” and so I assumed that it was my
student. I opened the door wide, gave a
big smile and gestured inside my door, saying, “Come in, come in!”
The lady
stepped half inside my door and started talking about her religion.
I realised
my mistake and decided I probably had a few minutes to listen and pick up a
pamphlet as usual, before my student arrived.
But the
lady at my door was extremely persistent.
She was probably greatly encouraged by my enthusiastic welcome. She invited me to do some chanting with her,
which was supposed to make me happy.
“I’m really
sorry, but I’m about to start work in a few minutes. I had really better be going,” I said.
“What time
do you finish work?” she asked.
My tone
became a little colder. “Why do you need
to know that?” I said.
“Because
I’m really keen to do this chanting with you.
I think it is really important,” she said.
“I’m sorry,
but I’m not interested,” I said.
She still
didn’t give up. She started talking
about earthquakes, she praised me for my Japanese ability, she asked if I had
children. I couldn’t close the door
since she was standing in the doorway after I had invited her in.
I had to
say that I really wasn’t interested several more times before she gave me her
pamphlet and left.
I hope my
old friend and his mother are doing well.
I hadn’t thought about them for a long time.